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Coping with mental illness

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Editor,

Very often the reason that causes our depression is a grave and genuine one. Any issue be it the death of our dear one, injustice, social ills, unbearable financial constraints, physical abuse or emotional torture ~ is indeed very serious in nature.  When we suffer from depression, our well wishers generally advise us to share our pain with them, to listen to soothing music, to read an inspiring book, to get solace in the beauties of nature and to consult with a doctor. Needless to say, they advise such things not to get any money or favour from us. They only want to comfort us as they are our friends in need. Unfortunately, we sometimes think that they are trying to belittle the gravity of the problem that is causing our depression. And also we are apprehensive about whether they are casting doubts on our mental strength. Such thinking actually belittles our genuine friends and isolates ourselves from them. 

The funny thing is that when we suffer from cough and cold or from asthma, we do not hesitate to go to a doctor and give her/ him medical fees to get necessary advice. And we eagerly follow doctor’s prescription which advises us to drink plenty of water, soup and to inhale water vapour apart from taking medicines. Our doctor prescribes those things not to pooh-pooh air pollution which is indeed the main reason for our bronchial disease but to give us some relief. Ironically, had our doctor finished her/ his job by saying, ~ “You see, air-pollution is the main culprit. Let’s solve that problem first. You mustn’t try to get some temporary relief!” ~ we would have been very angry! 

As a matter of fact, the social stigma attached to mental problems makes us behave in this manner. Such stigma can wreak havoc especially on the psyche of a man as we have been brainwashed with such nonsense as ‘a real man should not cry.’ If a man becomes emotional then he runs the risk of being branded as a “cry – baby”. The problem of dancing with the tune of such a male – stereotype adds insult to injury. 

It is time to break ourselves free from gender stereotypes and to shed all inhibitions about depression or any other mental stress. We must not forget that no disease can be branded as exclusively mental or physical one. Our diseases are mainly psychosomatic as the mind and the body are closely connected. 

Yours etc.,

Sujit De,

Kolkata

Importance of independent M&E  

Editor

Apropos HH Mohrmen’s article relating to the Integrated Basin Development and Livelihoods Programme(IBDLP) where the writer  spoke  favourably  about the programme  and  to the extent possible  spelt out  the  efficacy of  its approach     which     sounds  revolutionary   and   promising. Subsequent reactions in letters published by your paper however contradicted  the observations made  in the article with critical opinions  especially  on the implementation aspect  of the programme. There was even a call to  review  or revisit  the programme    to assess its actual impact on the ground  so far.

       While  it is typical to have   contradictory   observations   on  developmental efforts   especially on the innovative ones, however in this particular instance   such observations  assume significance as these are  related to   an  ambitious  programme believed to be initiated by  the  Chief Minister of the state  himself  with   high expectations   that it will bring the much required  positive changes in  the related field  that  it covers. It  is also understood  that  substantial  funds  have been drawn in from different  sources  in order to   provide financial support to  the programme   

         Since  both  these   observations  were  personal valuations without substantial   evidences   to support either, the actual position on the ground  is therefore vague and inconclusive  . But given the  magnitude  of the programme , the  proposed extent of its reach , the huge investment  being poured in for  its implementation , the  apparently  serious  commitment that  has  been made so far and  its  projected    scope  of  advancement, one would tend to agree  with the observation that  there is  certainly a need to evaluate the programme   on the ground  by now  to determine if it is  moving on the right track  before fast forwarding  it further. The evaluation should, of course, be done by an independent monitoring and evaluation (M&E) agency.    

        The evaluation of the programme  is necessitated more by the fact that though its  exponents   claim  that  it   is  sound and  feasible for the intended  objectives , it is also understood that its concept has not  really  sunk into the psyche of many in government  and many  public   representatives as well   and  therefore it could be regarded  as an   incompatible  and unworthy  proposition. However a   proven success after   evaluation    will  strengthen  the  cause for  its continuity  while  a proven failure  will justify its discontinuance regardless of any    government  or leadership  that comes in later in  the state . By now the state  perhaps cannot afford to  change horses midstream   with every change of government  while pursuing plan  and strategies as  inconsistent development paradigm and short term tactical policies   could  lead to growth that is vague, incomprehensible and unrewarding .

       Likewise  ,  evaluation  of  any   Mission initiated by  the  government  which is  in the advance stage  of  progress  would    determine if  the administrative  and strategic  approaches   adopted  therein are  effective enough to  bring reasonably satisfactory results  so that such approaches can be  relatively   replicated in   any   new  Mission  being  introduced.  In fact,  such other development programmes which aims at   expanding  human capability for    expansion of resources  and production  under   implementation  in the state  since many  years may   perhaps  be  also evaluated  by now  to  highlight the  achievement  and failures  ,  the extent that old problems have been solved, what  is left to be done  and if there  are new problems to be addressed.

       Undoubtedly  , innovative programmes  for development   are  essential  as these will define  future approach  towards  progress and advancement. However  ,  these should  also  be     buttressed with sound guiding principles  that are  significantly  derived  from  a  holistic  and genuine   appraisal    of  interventions made so far . Thereafter  a modest beginning  conforming  with the built up capacity in place to ensure a  sound  approach ,   commencing  steady monitoring and   subsequent evaluation with  progress  will determine  the worth   of such programmes  for   expansion. It might  sound like a  slowdown  approach but  it could  be  a slow and steady move  towards growth   that is definite, plausible   and beneficial.  

Yours etc.,

KL Tariang,

Via email 

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