SHILLONG, Dec 3: Meghalaya State Commission for Women (MSCW) Chairperson Iamonlang Syiem has called on men to actively oppose all forms of violence, emphasising on the need to break the silence surrounding the issue. “Good men who remain silent cannot empower others or bring about change,” Syiem said following a roadshow and flashmob on Tuesday.
Her remarks come amid the MSCW’s ongoing ‘16 Days of Activism to End Violence Against Women’ campaign, which began on November 25, marking the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women.
The campaign, featuring roadshows and flash mobs, will conclude on December 10, observed as World Human Rights Day.
Speaking about the wider impact of violence, Syiem stressed that it affects everyone — men, women, and children — and must be addressed collectively. “We need to rise up. Whenever there’s an instance of violence, we should not be quiet,” she said, urging men to take an active role in challenging societal norms that normalise violence.
Syiem also pointed to the culture of silence, particularly in rural Meghalaya, where victims often hesitate to seek help due to societal pressures. “Knowledge and understanding of rights are critical. People need to know that help is available, and they should not be afraid to seek it. It’s about enabling people, not just empowering them,” Syiem said.
The Chairperson further highlighted the need to re-examine cultural practices that perpetuate silence and violence. She called for introspection at individual and community levels to create meaningful change. The MSCW’s campaign aims to inspire conversations and collective action, encouraging communities to confront violence and its root causes.
Syiem’s appeal, particularly to men, serves as a reminder that combating violence requires a shift in attitudes and active participation. “It’s time to say no to violence and everything that is ugly. It starts with men, and it should end with men,” she added.
